Today I spent time at home. Hubby was home. I was naked. So what happened that I can now do this in his presence. I told him how it made me feel when he saw me naked and he told me to put some clothes. I think also that the fact I'd told him our marriage was over also sent him into shock. He's now listening to me and has acknowledge his part in the failure of our marriage. So to those of you who are living a life of lies etc, be honest and open in your relationships. Don't hold back if you're pissed off with something they've said and done. Holding how you feel without expressing it can lead to illness of many kinds. I know. I've been there.